These Five Words – A Poem

Today, my beloved two-year-old son said “I love you very much” (for the first time!) just before he left the house to go to his grandparents’ place.

It was a magical moment. Those five simple words that came out of his little mouth were so profound that they made my heart swell. I got all teary.

My partner reminded me that I said something like “what’s the point of doing all this hard work for him, when I don’t even know if he loves me back?” during one of many breakdowns I had in the first (and most difficult) few months of parenthood. Of course, I don’t remember saying that at all.

Well, now I know he loves me because he has told me so, even if the two-year-old cannot actually articulate what love is yet. As clichéd as it sounds, it was the moment that made almost two and a half years of hard (and unpaid) work of parenting all worthwhile.

Inspired by the moment and dedicated to my son, I wrote a poem:

“These Five Words”

these five words
make my heart sing
like birds
as loud as
the birds you chase
in the middle of parks

these five words
lift me up
like cranes
as high as
the cranes you watch
in construction sites

these five words
keep me going
like life
as alive as
the life you bring
to my world

minji hur (a.k.a. Mummy)

Be – A Poem

when your loved one is
unwell, or struggling
whether physically
or emotionally
you want to do
anything and everything
to help them feel better

but sometimes we find
there’s nothing much
we can do
other than simply
with them
for being is
more intimate
more profound
than doing

perhaps what they need
more than ever
is for us to
there for them
with complete attention
with full presence
not to mention
kisses and cuddles

minji hur

The Heart – A Poem

a heart that’s soft enough
to ache, to feel the pain
is the heart that’s able
to feel the love

minji hur